Re: Paglia Speaks - Part 3.

[Siren]
All of my teenage and adult life I've dealt with men feeling quite free
to oogle, ludely comment, grab and follow me around because I happen to
live in a body sporting large breasts.  I'm not talking about an 
occasional whistle, I'm talking about a complete stranger walking beside
me on the sidewalk rambling on about my tits and trying to convince me
to let him stick his dick in between them. This behavior is insane, it's
ludicrous and it's constant.  Every woman in this city has her 
boundaries trampled upon daily.  So why go into the business?  Well, if 
you can't beat 'em, join 'em, I say... and get paid well for it.  Once 
inside a club, everything changes.  I want people to oogle at my tits.  
I want them to want me.  I want to stir up lustful thoughts in those 
nasty little brains.  The more, the better. Why? because we have a deal.  
It's solicited attention instead of unsolicited and it makes all of the 
difference.  Instead of being a victim, I am a partner in an agreement 
that works for both parties.  If things go well, we part company with 
both of us taken care of in our various ways.  As far as who is "ruling" 
the situation, I prefer to keep that conflict aspect out if I can.  The 
customer may think he's in charge because for a little green he can buy 
a girl's attention.  The dancer may think that she's ruling because he 
has to pay to be with her.  I feel that since we're both getting what we 
want, why even go there. The truth of the matter is, one party can't 
operate without the other and it's alot more fun to just cooperate and 
enjoy yourself.